Hypnotherapy
for children in Fareham
If
you have a child or young teenager that is struggling to cope with
bullying, depression, anger, behaviour problems, school pressures,
puberty or any one of the million and one problems that seem so
overwhelming when they are trying to get to grips with the business
of growing up then you have come to the right place.
Children
and young adults respond particularly well to hypnosis, perhaps
it is because they welcome new experiences, they are so open to
anything new and a bit different. Having teenage boys myself, I
know that sometimes you say to them 'what's wrong' and the best
answer you get is 'I dunno' and a shrug of the shoulders. The trouble
is they really DON'T know.... or at least they don't know how to
express what is wrong, they know that they feel sad, or
angry or exhausted but they don't know why, or how to put it into
words, and no amount of 'understanding' or sympathising can get
them to open up about what is troubling them
The
IAH approach to helping with teenage and childrens problems is to
offer a chance to find a solution without making them identify
what is wrong! - without putting them on the spot or making
judgements about their behaviour. We do this by using what we call
the Blowaway technique
This
therapy is carried out with one or, preferably both, parents present.
The most important person in the session is the child/teenager and
I will address myself to them at all times with as little reference
to the parent(s) as possible - I don't actually NEED to know what
the problems are and I want to make that young person feel that
I am not going to judge them or moralise to them..... just help
them!
After
putting 'my client' into a relaxed, hypnotic state I will ask them
to imagine strong emotions that they may have experienced for example,
anger, fear, loneliness, guilt and feeling that they can never do
anything right. As they are imagining those feelings I will encourage
them to 'blow' the feelings away. This combination of 'feeling'
the emotion and linking it with a real, physical action is an extremely
powerful way of discharging any negative emotions that have been
holding them back.
The
session will end with lots of strong, positive, ego boosting suggestions
so that they leave me feeling good about themselves.
If
this all sounds a bit simple that is because it IS
simple.... but incredibly powerful, a chance to clear away all the
old, dark feelings and insecurities.
If
you would like to know more about the technique, or you would like
to come and see me to reassure yourself that your son or daughter
will be in good hands then please call to make an appointment for
my free initial consultation.
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